That's what one of my friends said to me today. I kinda of was rude to her a day or two ago when I was feeling ****** and lonely, but then apologized and she was trying to be nice, inviting me to hang out and saying she gets how I feel. So I started to share more how I feel, how I felt for a while and she asked what makes you happy and I said nothing. It isn't exactly true, but nothing makes me want to get out of bed, things just sooth the stress for the moment. So she you don't let yourself be happy and I just got so hurt and angry. Then I went on a rant about the ways I have tried to make myself happy but lost all passion and motivation for within a month and she said she was trying to help and I said I don't want help I want a friend. Then she said that's what she was trying to do, so I said stop judging me, and it ended there.

Sorry for the rant. I kind of feel like a **** because I didn't need to be so rude, could have explained more. But I helped this girl out through a period when she felt like **** and I never told to suck it up and be happy and that she's choosing to be sad, I just listened and comforted and it aggravates me she won't do the same.

Sorry for that rant as well.

What do you guys recommend for me to do to try to smooth this over and make the communication better?