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Originally Posted by liz0614
Thank you for the responses! To answer a few questions. We are both middle age in our 40's. This is a second marriage for both of us and I don't remember him being like this at first.
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"Dude: when I married you, you were "with it". By now you have disintegrated and are into controlling my whereabouts. I have news for you: if you do not stop controlling my whereabouts, I will divorce you, and then you will DEFINITELY not know my whereabouts. So either you quickly go back to your original state of mind and learn to tolerate not knowing my whereabouts
infrequently, or, you will
never know my whereabouts since I will divorce you. Figure out what suits you better and let me know by the end of the summer so that I can make plans accordingly."
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Originally Posted by liz0614
I lost my Father who I was very close to and after he died I had a picture of him in my wallet. When my husband saw it he went off the deep end asking why I didn't have a picture of him? Well I don't keep any pictures in my wallet (I don't even have ones of the kids) but I found a picture of my Dad and stuck in in there. I haven't heard the end of it....
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"Dude... when I married you, I thought that you were a Mensch. But you aren't.
It is not your fault and you cannot be helped, so I am not accusing you of anything, but just letting you know that I am leaving this marriage as soon as feasible. You should start thinking, if you care, about whether you want mediation or lawyers. I will think about that myself, pricing the options, and then let us reconvene at the end of the summer, when we will have done our homework, and talk. Do not try to influence my choice, please, as it is pointless."