I use to worry so much about what people thought etc etc because I was always the odd kid. I did weird things as a child growing up. I had weird interests. So I was pretty secluded. I had a a few select friends growing up but I found much to not have friends. Recently though I got diagnosed adhd. A lot of the things I learned about it and have learned from my doctor opened my eyes up to many things. Sure I am a little off I suppose in others eyes, but you know what. If they have an issue, that is there issue. Get over it. Having adhd can be a pain in the butt, but you know. There are so many things I think that are wonderful about it. I would not trade it. Sure I struggle in areas but you who doesn't. But when excel at something we can do it with so much passion and creativeness. We are not bound by rules of society in our minds. Or we can make a left where everyone else makes a right turn. My mother tries to tell me to not tell people about it, but I feel that it is not something to hide nor be ashamed of. I am a bad liar anyway. I would rather just tell you. If you can't handle it or believe it. meh that is on you. not me.