Poor Babygirl ~ I am so sorry. Please allow yourself this time to grieve. It is normal to feel so deeply the loss of your hoped for baby.
Yes, it happens to a lot of people & no that doesn't make it any easier. You just have to let yourself feel these feelings, and go through each day as best you can, and I promise you, it will get easier. Even if you can't see it right now, I promise, this pain will lessen with time.
There is a reason women carry the young; we are far stronger than the men. Stronger, in our hearts & bodies than even we ourselves know. Please take care, you're in my prayers.