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Old Jul 17, 2013, 04:13 PM
mojo321 mojo321 is offline
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Originally Posted by AaronsArmyGFAngela View Post
Bless you I know how you feel, my boyfriend might be deployed and I'm back home in Houston. *Tears* But when I told him I got my haircut it was after the fact that he asked me baby?! Why did you go and get it before asking me that you wanted to get it cut? I thought to myself I am a grown woman that can make her own decisions for herself!
Wow, I remember this kind of argument. You guys are young, and not married yet, so this is a great time of your life to get it sorted out NOW. Try something like,

"I know it is shocking to you, but I am still the same person, and I like to try different things with my hair. It is MY hair after all. I hope you can understand that some things are by MY choice, not yours, and not "ours". Like what I wear, or how I get my hair cut." Etc...

Also, forgive me if I go too far with this, but I would love to see you change your screen name to put "Angela" first. This is, in fact, YOUR screen name. Not his. There is nothing disrespectful to your spouse for such little personal ownerships.
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