I think you have many of the symptoms an undiagnosed male your age would be experiencing. Take a good look at your parents and how they are. I was brought up be a single undiagnosed add mother. Ive done alot of research of the types of add adhd people can have. Learning about my condition is extremely thereputic and I am learning how to do things a little different in order to get it done. These are the answers that I needed to know why I was this carefree impulsive lovestarved girl. I have a wonderful therepist/coach who is giving me ideas and techniques that I use everyday. People like us just need to a different kind of stimulation to stay interested in a sugject.. This comes with practice and maybe meds to start. Well hope Ive answered your?? A really interesting book is ADD & romance by halverstadt, MS.