I just find it really sweet and kind of you to be so concerned. Even though I'm making a gross over generalization, most people would walk away, and attribute it to drama.

I can feel your concern, and I wish more people would feel and act that way, and stick by their SO (significant other) when it appears that there is no right answer or action.

I found that my ex-boyfriend would get even angrier and frustrated if I couldn't explain why I was crying or didn't know what he could to do to help, aside from holding me or simply being a presence near me.

The best thing one can do, in my humble opinion, is be readilly available when she can express what is troubling her and not automatically attribute it to something you did or something that can be fixed right away or if at all.

Thanks for caring. I haven't read the subsequent posts, so I might be repeating myself.

Cheers & say hi to East-Sussex ( if you pass through for me)
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