Marriage councelling...might as well get it before the marriage to see if you both are really as compatible as your infatuation thinks you are.

First off, marriage doesn't stay like the beginning start off because it's not just about the attraction....marriage is about every day stuff that you need to be compatible with.....if you aren't & there is the fighting...then maybe you don't have the similarities that you really need for a successful marriage....it's not just about love....it's about working together as a team.

I stayed in a bad marriage for 33 years......fighting continuously....for me it was because I couldn't trust his decisions because he had even before we got married proved that he wasn't capable of being trusted especially for financial decisions. Unfortunately in my situation I didn't listen to my gut feeling that told me NOT to marry this guy......the hate grew from the constant fighting into the most miserable marriage I could have ever imagined.

You definitely need to go through counseling to determine the difficult places in your relationship & work on them now....if there doesn't seem to be an agreement on the things you are fighting over....all the love it the world won't fix it & the best thing to do would be to NOT get married or even live together because life will only continue to get more miserable.