When I 1st started seeing my T she didn't really set boundaries (so boy did I develop transference!)
I never called her but texted and emailed a lot,I started to realize that T was one of the 2 people I was texting the most in my contact list (had to stop that)
Then I felt transference kick in and T pushing me away and I was distraught,I hated the woman,felt like she was abandoning me.
We worked through it and now I can go an entire week without any contact only to reassure our schedule appointments.
I absolutely never email her anymore but when I was in crisis mode she did call me&did text me to check on me the next day.

I think after a while,I realized,like she said,that I didn't need her as much as I thought!!