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...there's no one who wants to hear everything. [/QUOTE]

I believe we seek connection in the world. We seek love and companionship. But we also need to be able to be comfortable in ourselves and to find peace in solitude.

Do you have 'connection' with your friends? Are you interested in their lives? Do you listen to them? And are they interested in your life? Is there a good balance of sharing?

Close and deep friendship can be a key to a fulfilling life. But it's not easy finding true friendship. I think it takes a bit of work and also patience.

I'd spent many years feeling lonely and envious of the stories of women's friendships. I think I may have put out vibes of aloofness or disinterest although those weren't my true feelings.

Since beginning therapy my friendships have blossomed and deepened. And because of that, my need for my T has lessened. And, I don't have daily contact with friends and so detailed account of my days is usually not shared but a strong sense of connection IS felt and that is completely satisfying.

Rainbow - try to nurture your RL friendships and you may be surprised how healing and helpful that is towards gaining some real peace.