Count me in amongst the fiercely independents, with emphasis on the fierce. It's so hard for me to even tell the difference between a need and a want. As a result, I default to everything being a want and therefore I don't have to ask for it. Indeed, I shouldn't ask for things I just want.

So, yeah, I stay as far away from T's boundaries as I can. I think he'd actually consider it huge progress for me to bump up against his boundaries once in a while.