so it was my nephews 1st birthday today (Thursday) I missed his party because I had work. I've just been on facebook to a message saying 'well Harley had a nice time' this was from my mum. I mean wtf is that supposed to mean? is she trying to make me feel guilty for not going because I had no way of going I had work 1130am until 630pm and my nephews party was at 12pm. I've only been at my job for 4 weeks and it would of been rude to even ask for the day off, I told my sister last week I wouldn't be able to attend so why the message from my mum. I knew he had a good day I saw for myself so whats her problem. is It because I didn't constantly message to ask about the day if that's the case come on ive got my own life and I cant be bothered with all the stress family bring. now my emotions are all over the place, feeling anxious, stressed, guilty, upset, angry and annoyed