I have always been completely happy with my vagina, vulva, etc., and I do not look at porn and have no idea what the industry standards are. Whatever.

I do not do oral sex these days, but back when I did, I was told that I (that is, my secretions) was (were) sweet and enchanting. It made sense to me. I also very much like my smell (and, the smell of men, too).

It is bizarre to me that women would worry about such things, because behind worrying about such things is the idea that somehow nature did not set them up correctly from the start and they need to make alterations (surgery, covering the true smell with fragrances (which are probably horrible and clearly men should be more drawn to the smell of the natural female secretions than to the smell of synthetic fragrances), piercing, bleaching, etc. etc.). It is bizarre - it shows some sort of disbelief in the wisdom of the evolutionary process. I just cannot reconcile it with my deeply held idea that the evolutionary process is good enough and I am one of the many fine enough culminations of the evolutionary process.

I can understand bleaching for the purposes of porn, as in a job requirement, though. I mean - a job is a job, and if you need to perform a surgery or something along those lines to qualify for a job, then sure some people would do that. Some people restrict their own freedom by not using drugs when they are employed at companies that mandate drug-testing, other people wear uniforms to work because they have to, etc. - same thing, sacrifices in order to keep a job.

I only like cunnilingus as an act of a man's enjoying the woman's genitals, enjoying the smell, taste, intimacy, etc. I do not like cunnilingus as a man's attempt to please the woman (nor do I orgasm from it). I simply liked being loved by a man in this very intimate fashion. It was very touching.