Even when Hamster is tired the advice makes perfect sense.

I agree with Hamster feeling conflicted is ok.

I look at it this way great relationships are based on great communication so I would talk to your girl about how you feel, tell her your conflicted, tell her you enjoy where you live and everything else on your mind. By discussing it you may discover you want different things or you might both agree you're not ready to move in together either way at least your talking about it.

It does bother me you don't want her to go with you to some of your social events and that you feel she needs baby sitting. I would hate my guy to feel that way about me it would really hurt me if he didn't want me around so I'm questioning if she is the right one for you.

Good luck, go easy with both your hearts.