Sweetie, you are beautiful and wonderful and you do plenty. You raise 3 kids (THREE!!!). You are a loving person and a terrific friend to many, not least of all me. I don't know if I can tell you it's OK to feel like a stupid loser -- because we both know that's the depression talking, and not the truth, but when you're in the midst of it, it sure *feels* like the truth.

But it's not. I love you to pieces, your kids love you to pieces, and YOU MATTER. If you don't matter to you, you at least matter to me, and we can go from there, OK?

(((((((((((((((((((((Jenn)))))))))))))))))))))))))