Hamster and I cannot agree on this topic at all. This is how I see the situation with removing her wedding ring, funeral etc. She's trying to disconnect without having to do the work. Without having to face the drama and emotions that come with a break up. I think she's trying to sneak out the back door. Like one day you'll come home and not notice that she's gone. It won't work, she's not thinking clearly, but I'll bet she's trying to avoid dealing with you. She's clearly telling you that she's done but she's trying to avoid the painful conversation.