I do not think you are wrong for being upset.. I'd be upset too...I'd be furious... In fact, I do think I'd "burn" his dinner a few nights... or better yet, be too sick to cook... doubt that will work.. Maybe extra starch his underware or put itching power in his shorts.. You might get a small smile watching him be a tad uncomfortable..

My x husband wasn't the "fathering" type. Although he did enjoy making kids... And as for me, if I needed anything, well that was just too bad. Oh well... Kids, husbands, family.. Is there really such a thing as a happy family where partners care for each others well being and both participate in raising the kids... shrugs shoulders

My heart goes out to you.. I pray things get better for you...