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Old Jul 19, 2013, 05:40 PM
hamster-bamster hamster-bamster is offline
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Originally Posted by George H. View Post
Are you two trained in CBT? Done a complete assessment of this member? No? Okay then
I bolded the parts that I think might make it easier to understand why a makeover isn't going to help.
I'm pretty sure the poster wanted tips to deal with the impact the mental health issue has on his/her daily life, not tips on improving his/her appearance or voice.
If the member would like to clarify that question it might be best all around but it seems pretty clear from his/her followup posts that beauty tips are not the aim of the thread. It isn't my goal to start an argument here... just trying to help the poster get some good answers on the issue.
I guess for me the good thing about CBT is that it does include common sense .

OP started the thread by saying that they viewed the photographs of incredibly attractive people and became hugely upset.

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Originally Posted by rise__above View Post
I saw a couple photos of incredibly attractive people earlier, and I have been feeling disgusted with myself ever since. Does anyone have tips for BDD?
I offered a common sense approach:

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Originally Posted by hamster-bamster View Post
you need to spend several hours non-stop browsing social networks and just looking at random people.
OP did not try that approach. Comparing oneself only to incredibly attractive people is a bad habit on a cognitive level. It has nothing to do with imaginary flaws listed as symptoms of BDD.