At first I was thinking maybe I should meet with her face to face, but screw it...I guess if I don't care if we're friends, texting or even facebook would probably be ok. I went over and over in my head in bed last night just putting the whole situation together and I feel a bit better about it now.

Thanks for your inputs again guys. It means alot, because I HAVE to get this dealt with soon. The wedding isn't until next year, I have lots of time, but it makes me so paranoid whenever i see her online haha.

OH i forgot to mention she started this "wedding talk" convo on facebook a long time ago, where she has added all the bridesmaids...but she still hasn't tried to talk to me personally or even through the group for that matter. But the other day she said that she found new dresses and she expects us all to pay $140 plus tax for our dresses... umm I don't think so. I don't feel comfortable spending that much money on one item for myself, let alone a girl who I don't even know! I don't care how pretty the dress is...