Sounds like he was trying to express a need in the relationship, to not have to reassure you of how attractive he finds you. Perhaps, he didn't handle it, as maturely, as he could when he ignored your calls, however, I actually, can see where he's upset.
Men, like a woman, who is secure in themselves. And when a woman tells a man, that a friend calls her unattractive, it comes across as fishing for a compliment.

Now, the need that you seem to need, is to address the issue head on, without the silent treatment. That's where he didn't behave like a matured man, because he was unable to articulate, specifically what it was that he 'can't put up with.' And, from there, he could have said, I am going to go to bed, and when I wake up I'll call you.

Hope that explains, how I perceive it?