Thread: Hurtful word?
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Old Jul 20, 2013, 12:30 PM
The_little_didgee The_little_didgee is offline
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I'm not meaning to give you crap or make you feel like I am giving you crap, little didgee
Thank you.

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If you are not an "aspie" (we're talking about whether you identify with the name, not about whether you have Asperger's Syndrome) then it is like a schoolyard where the other person is desperate and not very good thinking up insults.
I was bullied in school. The word "Aspie" does not compare to that experience. Aspie is a pet name at least in my opinion. Didgee the pet human. Grrrrr. I tend to be quite literal. Perhaps, that is my problem.

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If you take "aspie" personally and identify with it and feel anything but affection for the nickname (ashamed when someone else calls you by that name) then you have a personal issue with being ashamed of yourself?
No, I am not ashamed of who I am. Actually, I like myself. Sure, I could use some improvement.

I never felt the need to identify to a specific group and/or community. Even though, I am quite active in the local autism community, I feel no need to wear the label or prove myself to others.

Note: my opinion only applies to me.

Last edited by The_little_didgee; Jul 20, 2013 at 01:50 PM.