(((granite)))
You are not selfish. The rest of us know this. You are always there for others. You post supportive messages even when you are hurting so badly yourself. You keep track of what's going on with the rest of us, which is, in fact, the total opposite of being selfish. You care. Don't listen to the mother's voice when it tells you that you are bad, because that voice is lying. Your posts and the way you are here show us who you are. And we love you.