I think that's part of why they only show you a small part of themselves - it makes it easier for us to outgrow them, to outgrow the need for them. I am at this point with my t. I haven't wanted to say too much about it, because other people here are missing their ts who are on vacation, but after a good 7 years, im like, take my t, please! I believe I do still need his help in making changes in my life, because up til now, all I've been doing is the prep work - kinda like getting stuff ready for a stir-fry. My first stir-fry. Then I'll wanna keep making stir-fry. So to speak.