yes im like that too. she told me about someone she knew in college. who was hard to talk to. she went into quite detail about it. and said perhaps she had autism. then she said that talking to me was the same as that girl. she said it was painful to have a conversation with me. that she has to do all the work. i dont look at her either. but we are working on eye contact. but so far its going bad. this is the second time she brought up the topic of autism.

thank you both for helping understand a bit more.