If you want to ask, then ask, what's the worst that could happen? Oh, only what your fears will present you with.
Can you release yourself from your expectations and just ask the questions without strings attached? The answers will be they way they're supposed to be -- for now.
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Originally Posted by tigergirl
I want to ask him for something ...
and if the answer is yes - it will be good
but if he says no I'll be disappointed and may really upset things
and if I don't ask then I will be left without knowing; and still wanting what it is the favour is about
Sometimes it's just frustrating when something that seems like it should be simple (ie. asking a favour) seems to get all these complicated layers involved
any thoughts welcome
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