So my husband asks me . Why do you need therapy? What's wrong with your life. Well I guess I suppose nothing in regards to I have a roof over my head, food on the table, you do not beat me.... It is not about that...It is about the way you found me(abused, neglected childhood, abused wife) and now I am trying to defrost and I do not cope the way normal people cope(he does know that. I hide it. Bulimia,self harm,past suicide, suicidal thoughts). I had no idea how to explain to him....everything I deal with inside my head.