Thanks yall. I sent another message saying sorry, wrong person etc. hopefully it will end there. The message did not name names and the FB name was "Christopher Rock" with a pic of Chris Rock. Then I deactivated it so it should just say Facebook User. Hopefully she will feel relieved to a point that I stated it was the wrong person/same name but of course she remembers it so I think that will suffice my impulse. Thanks again.