I can understand your anger/frustration and sometimes when we're upset we get impulsive. At least you did this anonymously and took it down. Has your husband ever told his mother or thought of confronting her? I have a beef with my sisters husband over trying to get with me(unsuccessful), but it still bugs me that I let it go. I agree it would be annoying to see her pretend to be a great person. Her sons could be abused too and not show it - hope not. Sorry this happened to your husband - I hate child abusers and don't understand their brains.