with my roommate/landlord/friend!

At the same time, I think of the quote by Carl G. Jung, "Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to a better understanding of ourselves."

I believe that her "caring" (in actuality, I do believe she suffers from fears of abandonment where she resorts to clinging behavior that drives others away) is just too much for me.

This time, I woke up to a call from Other Friend in which he wanted to know if I was alright and to please call R/L/F to let her know that I'm alright as well. I got off the phone and saw (what in my opinion is an excessive amount of phone calls) four missed phone calls from Other Friend and one missed call from R/L/F. I knew instantly what this was about (and I felt livid as we've been through this before and have discussed it before - and it just continues). I sent R/L/F a text that stated, "So what's going on?" to which she replied, "We're all snorting cocaine and having an orgy. We need you! Other friend can't find his pecker. It's attached with velcro. Bring your p---- so we can shave it." She then called and wanted to know why I wasn't answering her earlier text, said that she got worried and started to think I may have been out skating or cycling and got hit by a car and now I'm lying on the road bleeding to death or that some psycho kidnapped me and now I'm being murdered or raped. I told her that I was fine - that I was sleeping and am very tired and just want to spend this inside the house resting and relaxing. I told her that I didn't want to go out or talk on the phone, that I just wanted to be by myself today.

I still got another call from her later on during the evening. She wanted to know why I wanted to be alone, if I was mad, etc. She then invited me to come hang out with her and another friend - to which I let her know again that I want to be by myself today and to stay in. She then proceeded to tell me that the Other Friend seems like a person that you can have too much of and need some space (LOL LMAO! in my head at that point). She then let me know that last night she didn't really like Other Friend since it seemed like he was flirting with her husband (which, in my opinion he was not... was his usual self). She said that when we left, since she and her husband took separate cars and she couldn't see her husband behind her on the highway that she began to imagine Other Friend talking about manly stuff with her husband then convincing her husband to let him (Other Friend) give her husband a blow job, then having sex, etc. So then she kept trying to call her husband (pulled over on the side of the highway at that) and her husband assured her that was NOT the case.

Here's what led up to this incident: I started a new job recently and am now work Mon - Fri 8 AM - 5 PM; on Wednesday I bowl in a league from 6 PM - 9 PM, this past Thursday I attended a social networking event from 6 PM - 9 PM after work and then a show at a bar my friend was performing in from 10 PM - 1 AM, and on Friday after work I drove out of town to see a friend and then back in town for dinner (around 10 PM when I got home). On Friday night, I went to bed around midnight. I woke up around 6 AM and read, surfed the internet, went to grab breakfast, and then started to feel sleepy again around 11 AM so laid back down. Since I'm sleeping/resting, my phone has been set to silent. I don't want to be disturbed. I've been out all this week and busy almost all day each day, and on Sunday I'm travelling out of state. I wanted Saturday to just be a rest and relaxation day all to myself.

Missed Calls:

Roommate/Landlord/Friend 12:11 PM,

Other Friend - 12:23 PM, 12:23 PM, 3:12 PM, 3:35 PM.

I finally answered the 4:30 PM call from Other Friend in which he let me know that Roommate/Landlord/Friend is worried about me.

This is not the first time that something like this happened before. The first time was when I first moved in. I didn't respond to her texts and phone calls (was sleeping) and she ended up calling both places of my work, my other friends and family (got contact info from Facebook), as well as posting on my wall saying that she hasn't seen from me or heard from me and thinks I may be missing and to contact her if they know my whereabouts. When I did wake up, I had missed calls and texts from everyone I knew including both workplaces! I explained what happened (sleeping) and she told me that she's freaking out worried since I just moved from a small town to the small but largest city in the state that I'm naive and went for a walk in the park on down the street and that a stranger lured me into his apartment and made me put the lotion on my skin or give me the hose again! I kindly explained that this was a bit much, to which she seemed angry and replied defensively, "I'M GOING TO DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO MAKE SURE THAT MY FRIENDS ARE OK!"

The next big incident was when we were eating at a restaurant with another friend. I had a tooth abcess and was taking 800 mg Ibuprofen and an antibiotic. The pain reliever wore off, and I was in excrutiating pain and was not able to concentrate on eating or the conversation. I got up and explained what was going on and said that I'm going to go to the bathroom for a few minutes until it calmns down. I instead took a walk around the building (literally, the restaurant building) and when I came back inside she was up front with all the employees providing a description of me! She was relieved to see me and said that she got up to go check on me and that I wasn't in the bathroom so she immediately thought that some stranger must have kidnapped me or something happened to me.

I've tried explaining that her behavior is just TOO FREAKING MUCH! Yes, it's a possibility that I may be drugged, kidnapped, murdered, etc. but it's a slim possibility! And I have other things like work, other friends, social engagements, etc. that occupy my time other than her. She, however, thinks that I'm the crazy one! Doesn't understand how I can just let something happen to my friends... ugggh!

I get so frustrated with her that I've actually not enjoyed her coming around anymore...

What do you all think about this? Is there something else or more that I could or should be doing?