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Originally Posted by riotgrrrl
It sounds like he is more trouble than he is worth... sorry to say, and it sounds like he has some issues with his hot and cold behaviour, and that he's not that into you. It's very hard, but perhaps let this one go? Sometimes we never get the answers we want either, which is hard.
Please do not let the above bit put you off. I know you're hurting at the moment, but this man shouldn't be the yard-stick with which you measure all potential partners. He was just the wrong one, wrong time. There will be more stable and more straight-forward people out there for you!
Hugs.
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Thank you for your reply riotgrrrl! Your response has both confirmed what I needed or wanted to hear, as well as what I didn't want to hear. I do believe that I may have fallen for someone who is unavailable; which I have a history of doing... yet somewhere within me, I want to believe that he's special, he's nice. I see his personality in public and he seems so sweet to others including myself. I guess I am going to have to just keep on living my life and to try to meet other people - but here's the thing... everyone that has ever talked to me that was interested in me as ended up having problems (drug addiction, full blown personality disorders [usually Borderline and Narcissistic], extreme low self-esteem, etc)... how come normal or health people never show an interest in me?