gaaaaaaaah. I just walked down to the only mailbox in the village that is emptied on Sundays and mailed a letter to T. I read it through again before I sent it and it's all stuff I want to say to him but I am still not sure it's ok for me to bother him during his holiday - but I wrote to his office address anyway so it can't really count as intruding on his free time. And now it would serve me right if T were to empty his work mailbox during his vacation and then call me when my H is around, just because I was so stupid as to write to him. I've made it halfway through, which means I would be able to make it through the other half as well without risking a T contact. Gaaaaaaaaaaaaaah.