I would really like to ask my T a favor; a hug, to be precise.
But I don't think I will, because:
a) he knows about my transference and will probably think it wont be beneficial for me and
b) hearing a "no" from him will be devastating.
What do you guys think? Should I go ahead and ask him?
I don't want a "sexualised" hug, just a safe, paternal one, 'cause I'm gonna miss him during his holidays.