Thanks for the reply healing4me. I've reassured her many many times, but she's asking i leave her alone now and that i stop bringing it up. She's back to sleep, and i'm stuck here wondering what to do. i'm wondering if we should even worry about it anymore. She still doesn't know that i was already checkedlast week, and that i'm okay. I mean we've been having unprotected sex for 4 years now, so i'm almost 100% sure that she's okay too. I don't know what else to tell her and i don't want this to bring us apart.