Thanks, Terry. That worked out well. You know - part of my feeling overwhelmed is that I expect to have to do this for my S/O, as well. His health is failing alarmingly. His kids talk about him needing to go to a nursing home. I will help him stay in his apartment, as long as possible. (I'm over there more than I'm home.) Still, I think the day is not far away when I will have to clear out his place, too. (His family is thousands of miles away.)

It feels like I have the dismantling of my life ahead of me.