Good morning all...
Good afternoon Apt...

Ready, maybe H isn't capable of thinking that way? Would it have been awful if when you got back in the car after the ice cream stand you said "I'd really like that water ice, do you mind if we stop there instead?" I know it's nice to have them just "read your mind" and put your needs in the forefront, but some men just aren't capable of thinking that way. Being hurt about not getting your needs met when you aren't letting your needs be known is the basis of victim mentality. (I am not saying you have a victim mentality...just that it can become that over time). Kindly saying what you need before hand might be better than feeling disappointed afterwards. If you say what you need, and he still doesn't comply, then he's a jerk.

And..btw...my father was a much loved politician. Sparkly green "Irish" eyes, with dimples and a smile that could melt a thousand hearts. At home he was evil incarnate.

Oh...and....MKAC, you are not a *****. Thanks for thinking of me.

Healed: Is today the day? If so, I will be thinking of you. I hope all goes well, and you find healing through this.