ladygunn, I think I know what you mean. I am still married to a man. I have no doubt I do not "Bat for the other team" but there is nothing about man private parts that do anything for me. My H may very well be on his way out and leave if I don't have sex more often and act like I like it, not like I want it over with. I once told my H that god took a perfectly creature and the stick a **** on him. I like males, I like the male form, muscles and so on and so forth, but I cannot get past one certain male part. But I was forced in to oral w/ a boyfriend more time then I can count. So who knows what the future holds for me.