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Old Jul 22, 2013, 12:44 PM
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Originally Posted by Readytostop View Post
He was the one to suggest it in the first place and I said yes so if he didn't want to stop on the way home then he must not have wanted it any longer or did not think it would be as good as this place.
If it was me, I would not have had a reason for not going anyplace else - It just would not have occurred to me if my partner did not chime in with another suggestion. OR I might have thought she did not want anything really if the one place was closed and so if after my suggestion failed and she did not give one, I would just go home.
I only add this because I often am not doing or am doing something for different reasons than are attributed to me by others who don't just check with me before making conclusions that make them unhappy. Other times it is because I have not been thinking about the other person at all.
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