T1, never. Saw several other T's short term and mentioned that it existed in kind of general terms to one. She promised not to ask me about it and that I could wait to talk about it until I was ready, but then brought it up at one point and wanted me to talk about it. When I reminded her of her promise, she said I was taking "too long" to get there.

Current T, I told him it existed in general pretty early on, as in just said she was physically, emotionally and sexually abusive. We finally talked about it a little more after about a year in. It was over two years before I even hinted at the rest of it.