I am so sorry you are in this situation. It is not helpful to be in physical pain and having somebody treat you poorly at the same time. Are you able to talk to him about the way you feel? He obviously cares that he talked you into it while he was home to care for you. He just doesn't seem to have the skills to demonstrate it appropriately. You always have PC to vent all you want to here. Try the Coping with Emotions forum. You may get more responses. I would hate for you to sink further into depression. You could always PM me if you need to vent.