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Originally Posted by WikidPissah
I do not think this. I do not think you are sympathy seeking, and I sure as HELL don't think you have a victim mentality. I wrote that those are the things that LEAD to a victim mentality (not saying what you need, then being disappointed you don't get it). I am so sorry Ready, I wasn't meaning to offend you at all. I just was trying to...hellz, I don't know what I was trying...but it wasn't meant the way it sounded. I don't think you are like that at all. Not for a minute. I was more referring to the article. Ugh. I write stupid things. .
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Wiki... I said in a later post that no one upset me just gave me a different perspective... All those things I said I think the couch peeps think are really what I think.. And I wouldn't blame others for thinking.
So I shall try to be positive... So today was a good day... I had a lot of space in the bed last night to stretch out because my H was hanging over the edge of his side to keep well away from me. I had lots of time to think and had a very quiet and relaxing breakfast this morning as my H was ignoring me and would not speak to me and left for work without saying good bye. Then a miracle occurred and my H was a totally different person at 5pm when he texted me a proposition for this evening! So I am just appreciating that I get to live like I am on the open sea.... Never knowing which way the waves will toss me...
And later tonight I will get to work on my acting skills and pretend that I have a wonderful H who loves me very much and actually cares about me as a person and not just a means to get his needs met!
Someone once said with adversity comes opportunity.... My life has so much opportunity!