I have aspergers myself. Its hard for me to understand what others are saying sometimes and doesnt help when it seems as if everyone wants you to change to be how they are. Also its hard for me to make friends and when i do finnally make a friend i tend to mess up somehow and they dont want to talk to me ever again. I have learned the hard way that you cant really tell anyone that you have aspergers or you will get called names and get picked on and teased. I also have panic attacks and trouble sleeping. Can be irritable at times and get angry. I sometimes say stuff that is mean and regret it later more then others do, but still i am a person and i think that shouldnt change everything. Right?