He seems to be okay in his apartment for now. I don't know for how much longer. I've thought about finding a place for both of us to live together. I don't see that being a good idea. The bathrooms in most places wouldn't accommodate his needs. Us living together was a disaster when we did it in the past. He gets very upset at times. So do I. He is just starting to have a little confusion. He's been falling. His son says he shouldn't be alone. If I lived with him, I would be responsible. That would be not fair to me. He wants to stay where he is. None of the options is good.