Well, it hasn't been going so well with us. She thinks that since I don't want to have sex with her that I am judging her and she's regretting ever telling me. She's afraid that we will never be the way we were. She's confused with how I've been acting, why I all of the sudden want to use condoms when we've been unprotected for years. She won't believe anything I tell her. I'm getting her a present tomorrow (a framed picture of us) to show that I still love her and want to be with her. I hate how this blew up. I should have never gotten checked without her. I just had so much anxiety and worry that I couldn't wait. I hope that we will be okay. I just don't know what to do