When someone walks away from us the thrill of the chase is exciting... or it is because, as you mentioned, at the age of 30 you are worried that anyone is better than no one? You could be afraid of being alone.

Looking at people's bad points.. that tell's me that you've either not really got the mind-set for a relationship yet, that you don't deep down want a relationship, you have trust issues or that simply so far nobody you have met has really been of interest to you and ticked enough boxes.

I was the same with most of my relationships up to the age of 36 when I met my partner now. But the couple I really liked, I really did like and I didn't feel what you feel so much. There was a little wobble, but I ignored it and focused on the good points of them and what we had together. I do not have any regrets tho - all of those people I let go, it was the right decision. Looking back, I still couldn't be with any of them for the rest of my life. I'd rather be alone 100% than with the wrong person. Trust your gut, but please don't play games with people - if they don't feel right, they probably are not. Don't chase them unless you mean it because it hurts.

Hugs