oh helz Lola... that doesn't sound great. My friend did that, and even though her life was hell, they convinced her that a past life was even worse. Like she didn't have enough to deal with?

Since you seem unsure, can you set up interviews with others? Maybe even try 3-4 before deciding on one?

(if you decide on this woman, I will support you...please don't think I am telling you what to do._