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Old Jul 23, 2013, 09:21 AM
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Originally Posted by WikidPissah View Post
Do you think maybe you can back up and breathe? It's okay to tell T that it is getting really painful. Sometimes a t can take a session to reassure you or comfort you.

Sorry you are hurting!
Yeah...my T has backed off two weeks now because when processing some trauma it caused regression in my negative coping behavoirs and suicidal thoughts. It has helped so much just doing other work and backing off from past memories.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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Freewilled
Thanks for this!
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