The problem is that some of the behavior can come across as other issues....like living with my stbxh for 33 years of what constantly was passive aggressive behavior & I won't take care of even if I say I will......to end up being Dx'ed with adult ADD.......even our pdoc said that he didn't think it was the cause of all his problems....I had ENOUGH!!!!! & it was abusive to me & still is the things I'm going through trying to deal with him to get the divorce......so whether it is ADD or not.......the behavior treats me in an abusive way I is something that I can't accept.

It's a tough thing to deal with that's for sure & after so many years of living with someone in an abusive relationship, it's hard to just go....ah gee, ADD.........

But I definitely understand how those sentences could be used...especially when comedians who are ADD use them in their comedy

Shoot, even I can relate to all the rabbit trails my mind runs on when I'm trying to reply to a post & I'm not even ADD.....so I think we all struggle with aspects of this if we stop & think about it.