Confusedinomicon - you are correct. If he comes back, of course we will make room for him. I think this is about control and defiance. He has been kicked out of the home for several months now for his defiant, disrespectful behavior, which means he has to stay full time at his mom's house rather than come here every 1,3&5 weekend. Unfortunately we finally had to do something because he increasingly defiant crossing personal boundaries and was insistent on telling us what to do in our home.