I guess I need to be more clear. I'm trying to understand if anyone has known of an Asperger's person to be very controlling and have rigid thinking (not repetition etc. but just their view of how things should be) and extremely difficult to get to know or to have deep conversations with? I never thought much about this but for years now, it just seems strange that I still don't know who I'm married to. I feel like I'm smashed between everyone trying to control everything so much, that I feel crazy.