CE, my H is in his mid 40's.

T was really hard today. We tried to cover the some of the CSA stuff. He listed things we could talk about, but I could not discuss those things. I think I said two whole things in half an hour. At one point, he said, "can I ask you X?" I sat there for a long time in silence and finally said, "well you can ask, but I apparently cannot answer," and then we both laughed.